tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26132382158179878042024-02-18T19:05:28.392-08:00Stage LegsMaria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-76471744238606886702014-07-24T19:37:00.001-07:002014-07-24T21:12:10.774-07:00tour eveTomorrow morning I leave for my very first tour. It's a mini-tour, just three nights, but I'm as excited as I would be going on a cross country tour for 3 months.<br />
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I've been bouncing around all day long in hyperactive fashion. My face hurts from smiling. But as soon as I sat down to relax panic set in. And then the flu symptoms (I don't have the flu - it's nerves) began. And now I feel like I'm dying. Literally. If I died right now I would not be surprised. I know I won't but that is how it feels. So bad.<br />
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This is what the stage fright used to feel like. It seems so old, so far away, but so familiar. I don't like it. I don't want to feel this way.<br />
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But it's proof that my theory is correct: I'll never get over it. I just have to find ways through it.<br />
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Next tour will be easier. Firsts of anything are always hardest. And I'm sure when the boys pick me up in the morning I'll be just fine.<br />
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Or I won't. But I'll find a way through it. Of this much I am certain.<br />
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<br />Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-26000645561716496862014-05-27T11:06:00.001-07:002014-05-27T11:06:50.674-07:00quietMy last post was in early February. That says an awful lot about my state of mind; at least to me.<br />
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This blog seems so distant to me. I've grown and changed so much, so fast in a relatively short period of time.<br />
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I haven't "gotten over" my stage fright but I've learned how to work through it, <i>with</i> it, even. It's something that will be with me forever, I think, and that's ok.<br />
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I'm gigging all of the time (check out www.mariaryanmusic.com for photos, videos and present/past dates). some gigs are good, some not so good. But I'm learning to let them be what they are. I'm also learning to spend more time learning from the not so good ones with the energy I would have ordinarily spent beating myself up over them.<br />
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In June I've got an average of 2 gigs per week. I was offered 4 gigs on a single day (and was only able to accept 1). In the past, I'd vomit when a gig was offered. Now, I'm exhilarated. It's a riot. In July I'm touring MTL, Cornwall and Ottawa. Who'da thought?<br />
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Last Saturday I played the songwriter's session that I played when I first started performing again. That first time was so bad; I cried for days afterward. It was awful. Just a terrible experience. I said yes to doing it again in an attempt at redeeming myself but once the date was set I regretted it. I wouldn't have my music partner with me, for one thing, and returning to the scene of the crime started stressing me. But it was just what I needed. It went surprisingly well. I was nervous but used that as energy to do what I needed to do. I felt relieved and redeemed. Full circle.<br />
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When I started this blog my intention was to continue it as a performance blog once I got through the stage fright. But it feels like a dress that doesn't fit right anymore. Time to move on, I think. We'll see.<br />
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Next up is recording an album. Perhaps that will stress me enough that I'll blog about that!<br />
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In the meantime, come out and see me sometime. I'd love to sing you a song.Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-31909565948736335382014-02-03T23:06:00.001-08:002014-02-03T23:07:07.972-08:00evidence<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-56450180538474954422014-02-03T22:59:00.003-08:002014-02-03T22:59:40.660-08:00time moves onOh goodness, I haven't posted since September. A lifetime seems to have passed since then. I've done so much, so much has changed; where to begin?<br />
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Since my last post I've had 7 gigs (not counting the tune I do every other week with Sean's band). Some have been good, some not so good, but a learning experience every time. I've managed to learn how to not crucify myself when I mess up. That's huge for me. Huge.<br />
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Two gigs ago I was so sick with stage fright I thought I should probably consider not performing anymore. I threw up twice, it felt like weasels were trying to claw their way out of my guts, I was shaking so hard I'm sure I was blurry and I spent a lot of, um, unpleasant time in the bathroom.<br />
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The gig itself was great. I wasn't perfect but that was ok. Chris, my musical partner in crime, was there with me and we had a great time. The audience response was great. Once it was over, I felt like a million bucks. But the lead up was bad. Very bad.<br />
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Before my last gig, which was yesterday, I was a bit more proactive about it. I meditated for 40 minutes in the morning, I took Rescue Remedy, I went for a walk, I rehearsed with Chris for 2 hours. I didn't start freaking out until about an hour and a half before CB picked us up. And I didn't freak out nearly as much as I did the time before. Not even close.<br />
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Since I booked the gig, I've fought my desire to put a ton of pressure on myself about it. I mostly won. Which is saying a lot without saying much at all. Just trust me when I say it was no small feat not to completely psych myself out over this one. But you know what? It turned out to be my best yet.<br />
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A big difference with this gig from others is that the room was mostly full of people I know. You see, I don't tell many people about my gigs because I didn't want my people to see me fail (and of course I'm always assuming I'll fail). But this gig was hosted by my friends so many of our mutual friends came. Plus, I actually told people about it so a couple of my people turned up too. I thought seeing all those familiar faces looking back at me would paralyze me but the opposite happened: I was on fire.<br />
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Not perfect, never perfect, but perfect in that moment. It's the first time I can honestly say I enjoyed performing. It was SO MUCH FUN. I wanna do it again. RIGHT NOW.<br />
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I've got 3 more gigs this month. I'm hoping March starts to fill up too.<br />
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Every day I torture myself with thoughts of "why am I doing this?" "to what end?" "for what purpose?". I get it now. After last night, I get it. It's for moments like that. Those moments when I'm completely myself and sharing my music with joy (not fear) and seeing both familiar and strange faces beaming back at me. It's magic. That's why I'm doing this.Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-16169913866682665402013-09-23T06:44:00.003-07:002013-09-23T08:31:35.771-07:00jess & maz: our version of goodbyeNot really goodbye. Just goodbye for now.<br />
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Here we are covering Leonard Cohen's Dance Me to the End of Love and Nick Cave's The Ship Song at her Going Away Soiree.<br />
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<a href="http://youtu.be/DAq2rXIbn6g">http://youtu.be/DAq2rXIbn6g</a>Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-66841352263452406832013-09-21T07:16:00.000-07:002013-09-21T08:35:02.443-07:00performance<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I performed my own material in front of a crowd of (mostly) strangers last night for the very first time. It was a good bye party for Jess. My heart hasn't stopped racing.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #222222;"><span style="line-height: 19px;">Overall, I think it went well. My guitar playing left much to be desired which is what happens when I'm so nervous. My hands just don't work. So my rhythm was sloppy and my dynamics were shit and I played way too fast. I was up half the night beating myself up for it. But the people loved my song (I played a new one called "Dear Henry" ). The response was...wow. I was a bit stunned when it was over, a little dazed, and a professional musician who is also an acquaintance (</span></span><a data-cke-saved-href="http://sarahburton.ca/" href="http://sarahburton.ca/" lj-cmd="LJLink2" style="line-height: 19px;" target="_blank">Sarah Burton </a><span style="color: #222222; line-height: 19px;">- she's great) pulled me aside before I could say anything and said, "Did you hear the cheers and applause? Did you hear it? That was for you and your amazing song. And no one here is just being nice."</span><br style="color: #222222; line-height: 19px;" /><br style="color: #222222; line-height: 19px;" /><span style="color: #222222; line-height: 19px;">Another woman asked where she could buy my record. When I said I didn't have one yet she said "Hurry up, then! I need to buy that!" A bunch asked where they could come see me perform. One woman said, "I need more of you. I know that sounds weird because we don't know each other but I need more. I'm in love with your voice." When I thanked her she said, "It's weird having you thank me. You're too good to have to say thank you." There were so many nice things said. I wish I could remember all of them. I'm so grateful to everyone who took a moment to talk to me.</span><br style="color: #222222; line-height: 19px;" /><br style="color: #222222; line-height: 19px;" /><span style="color: #222222; line-height: 19px;">I'm not bragging. I'm making a record so I can read this again when I feel like I want to give up or when I feel too frightened to play in front of anyone. I'm typing this out in an attempt to make it real because it seems like a fuzzy dream now.</span></span>Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-28146521729337701972013-09-17T20:42:00.000-07:002013-09-17T20:42:06.392-07:00Original #3Another new original.<br />
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Soundcloud: <a href="https://soundcloud.com/mariaryan-1/disappear-by-maria-ryan">https://soundcloud.com/mariaryan-1/disappear-by-maria-ryan</a><br />
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<br />Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-32605696886106416322013-09-13T16:35:00.001-07:002013-09-13T16:38:22.403-07:00Original #2Here's my latest demo featuring the incomparable Chris Bennett on lead guitar. A million thank yous to my producer (husband) for the countless hours he dedicated to bringing this to life.<br />
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<a href="https://soundcloud.com/mariaryan-1/counting-stars-demo-by-maria">Counting Stars</a> (soundcloud) or via the youtube link below. The sound quality on Soundcloud is better; youtube compresses the hell out of sound files!<br />
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Written in memory of the women who comprised Dr. Charles Pickering's human computer (circa 1885), especially Williamina Fleming.Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-65972328729285821882013-08-31T09:56:00.000-07:002013-08-31T09:56:25.203-07:00cover w/very special guestMy special guest is Dillon (or "Dilly", as I call him). Dillon was a guitar student of mine for many years when I lived and taught in SK. Though we've kept in touch, we haven't actually seen each other since June of 2005. Dillon visited me in TO while he was on holiday and had the idea that we make a video to reprise our years of making music together.<br />
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And it was only take 3...not 42! :-)Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-17948899541814885202013-08-24T14:03:00.001-07:002013-08-25T11:29:51.011-07:00gigThe gig on the 17th with Andy Griffiths went very well. I was a total wreck all day until we got to the venue. Hands started shaking at 9am, stomach would not stop flip flopping. It was awful. Once I was able to survey my surroundings, I calmed down quite a bit. Having my sister and husband there to entertain/distract me helped too.<br />
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Another good distraction was making friends with the lovely and talented Harpin' Norm who just happened to be sharing the banquette with me. He was full of advice, stories and anecdotes to help me work through my stagefright. He was a huge help. I had no idea who he was, aside from the chatty gent sitting next to me, and then he asked if he could play harmonica with me on Knockin' On Heaven's Door. Andy and I both said yes (he's played with Andy lots before) so he did. I was blown away. What talent! And so encouraging and lovely. I'm happy to know him.<br />
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The first set went great. It was so much fun to look into the audience and see my sister's giant blue eyes staring at me, big smile, two thumbs up, dancing in her seat. I screwed up the first line of the song because I broke my own rule of never making eye contact with audience members but I just smiled and continued on. No biggie. I sang lead on "Yer So Bad" and "Knockin' on Heaven's Door" and then did harmony vocals on "Throw Your Arms Around Me". There were some brief but wonderful moments when I felt like "hell yes, I'm doing this! I was born to do this!" Those felt nice especially in contrast to the "ohmygodwhatamidoingthisisterrifying" feelings I had too!<br />
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At the end of the set Sean reminded me to "always remember how you feel <i>right now</i>." So I sat there and was totally mindful of how I felt. I was happy, at ease, a little euphoric. My body felt relaxed and warm. No stomach ache, no shaking hands. Totally at ease. I felt really good. Despite that, when set 2 began I got extremely anxious all over again. By that time, a few more friends had shown up (it's always easier singing for strangers) but I did my best to pretend I was fine.<br />
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I sang "Cuts You Up" and when I finished a guy at the bar screamed "GOD, YES!" It was great. ha! We then did "Better Be Home Soon" which didn't go super well. I wasn't used to Andy's phrasing so my harmonies all went to hell. Whatever. I lived. No one threw rotten tomatoes at me. It was fine. Later we did an impromptu version of "Free Fallin'" for which I could not remember the backing vocals but it all worked out in the end. Not bad for on the spot at the end of the night, I guess.<br />
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Overall it was wonderful. Great having my people there, wonderful reception from the audience, a great experience all around. I left there trying to figure out how to make it happen again soon! It was just what I needed.<br />
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Last night I walked into a bar to see a friend's band play and two women ran up to me and said, "Oh, YOU'RE here! Please tell us you're singing tonight!"<br />
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I had no idea who they were so I automatically assumed they had me mistaken for someone else. They explained, however, that they heard me sing with the guys the other night and were hoping for more. Too cute.Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-46893864213576931142013-07-27T13:30:00.002-07:002013-07-27T13:30:56.116-07:00stuff1. I sang with Sean's band the other night. The band's singer and primary songwriter is hugely supportive of me and wants to help me get out there in any way he can. So he added a wonderful duet by Weddings Parties Anything to the set list to give me a chance to get up and practice being on stage. I was nervous but not sick about it. I actually didn't get nervous about it until Reid told me where in the set our song would be. It came and it went and it was fine. I couldn't hear myself but the boys said I did well (what else would they say?) and Reid has it on the set list for next time too. I'm so grateful for the experience.<br />
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While singing, I couldn't look at the audience so I mostly looked at Reid. People probably thought were a couple. ha. <br />
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2. A lovely singer-songwriter shared a bill with Sean's band a few weeks ago. We got to talking and he took an interest in my music and my stage fright and asked if I would send him my youtube channel. I did and he immediately responded with a request that I do a video with him and that I sit in on a few songs at an upcoming gig. I said yes to both. <br />
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3. I've started pricing CD sleeves for my upcoming demo release and Sean and I have been working on photos for that and for my new website. It's starting to feel real.<br />
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<br />Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-3714457074958299012013-07-19T12:25:00.001-07:002013-07-19T12:25:43.257-07:00yes!Well...it was great. I didn't choke. I was nervous but didn't choke. We actually had a great time, worked really well together and are already talking about "next time".<br />
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<br />Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-90412098007654841992013-07-19T05:29:00.003-07:002013-07-19T05:29:54.474-07:00meetingThe guitar player in one of Sean's bands is one of the best players I've ever heard. Ever. My plan has been to work on my music and playing out for a few years and then work up the nerve to ask him to play with me. he plays almost every night of the week and does lots of session work. He's a busy guy and he's an amazing guy so I didn't want to bring anything to him that wasn't really ready (for his sake and mine). He beat me to it and offered to play with me.<br />
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I'm overwhelmed and delighted and terrified. We're meeting today and I'm sick about it. I didn't sleep much last night, our meeting is 5 hours away and I'm already shaking. I don't want to ruin this opportunity. I don't want him to think I'm awful. And when I get this nervous I <i>am</i> awful. My hands don't work and I fumble around on the guitar like I've never held one before. My voice goes flat and gets squeaky. I forget words and I choke. I just choke. It's terrible and embarrassing and it has happened too many times for me not to worry it will happen again. It still happens sometimes when I'm playing for my husband. Bad.<br />
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So part of me wants to tell him it's too soon but another part of me can't wait to get it over with. I don't know what's best. I guess I won't know until it's too late.<br />
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Wish me luck.Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-77707632189861836872013-07-03T12:56:00.003-07:002013-07-03T12:56:55.013-07:00festivalI'm currently in the process of applying to play a songwriter's festival in Florida in January. One of my dearest friends has made it one of her goals to get me there and her enthusiasm and support has been infectious. So, despite the fact that I haven't played a single solo gig yet, I'm applying.<br />
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The main stage has been host to some major acts (Lucinda Williams, Mary Chapin Carpenter, Shawn Mullins, Amy Ray) and the smaller stage is meant for the not-yet-knowns. But even they have a CD or two and a tour under their belts. In other words, I'm really not ready. I know I won't get in this year but I'm doing it for the experience of applying and to get my name in their heads. I plan to apply every year until I get in.<br />
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So I need to create an EPK which means I have to get some demos finished, have some promo pictures done and get some dates on the calendar (and build a website and get some reviews) if I want to be considered. So we're working hard over here. Again, I understand how blessed I am to have a husband who not only loves and supports what I do but who is an amazing photographer and musician/producer/mixer who can help me get these things done. So lucky.<br />
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So we work. And I'm excited. And my stomach sinks and flips when I really think about what I'm about to do. But I'm doing it because it's time.<br />
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<br />Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-8638275485045947942013-06-15T22:41:00.002-07:002013-06-17T11:29:44.265-07:00house concertSo I went to a friend's house concert where several seasoned and amazing musicians played a few songs each. There was some really incredible talent in that room. Effortless, beautiful talent. Especially <a href="http://www.jorynash.com/bio.cfm">Jory Nash</a> who totally amazed me on a bunch of different levels. Amazing. And <a href="http://jessmcavoy.com/">Jess McAvoy</a> blew everyone's heads off. She was so powerful, so brilliant.<br />
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At the end, the hostess opened the floor and, much to my own surprise, I played a song. I messed up and I was a nervous wreck but I did it. I was shaking and playing too fast and too sloppy (it didn't help that I was playing on a horrible sounding uke) and at one point I even stopped and asked the crowd to stop clapping along! ha! But I DID IT! I did it. <br />
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Now I am trying to beat down the demons in my head telling me how horrible I was and that anyone who said I did well was just being nice to the pathetic girl who followed all that great stuff. Trying. Trying. It's not easy.<br />
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I don't think I'll sleep tonight.<br />
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This is what I played for the people (only not as well):<br />
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First, I was invited to play castanets at the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/captaindirtandtheskirt?fref=ts">Captain Dirt & The Skirt</a> CD release party at Lula Lounge a couple of weeks ago (on their tune<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCqtvIh0BDA"> "Spiders in the Storm", to which I danced at their Halloween soiree last year</a>). It was great fun and a joy to share the stage with Kristin and Lyndell (and <a href="http://ca.yamaha.com/en/artists/drums/gary_craig/">Gary Craig</a> and <a href="http://sahrafeatherstone.com/fr_home.cfm">Sahra Featherstone</a> - WOO!) once again, even if only in a small way. Every chance to get on stage is good practice, me thinks. I was even again to look at the people in the audience and smile and make eye contact. That was a big step for me! Unfortunately, there isn't any photographic evidence of the performance except this one (that's me behind the talented <a href="http://www.kristinsweetland.com/">Kristin Sweetland</a>).<br />
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A couple of months ago a women emailed me after finding my kijiji ad offering guitar and uke lessons. She wasn't looking for lessons but was hoping I'd play uke at her Hawaiian themed block party. I enthusiastically said yes! It seemed perfect: I'd be playing in front of people but not with the pressure of being on stage or really "performing". Just casually walking around, strumming and "creating atmosphere" (in the words of the party giver). And they were going to pay me. Yay! <br />
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Two weeks before the gig I began to panic. Loss of sleep, sick stomach. Panic. When the weather reports called for nothing but rain I prayed the party would be cancelled but, alas, it was not.<br />
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The day of the gig I was calmer than I expected. I meditated, I exercised, I taught my students, I took a few doses of <a href="http://www.bachflower.com/rescue-remedy-information/">Rescue Remedy</a> and aside from some slight butterflies, I was really ok.<br />
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I got to the gig and the people were...special. Let's just say it was very very clearly noted that I was the hired help and must not cross the line in the sand. Whatever. Anyway, I was decked out in Hawaiian attire, had my trusty <a href="http://kalaukulele.com/index.htm">Kala</a> in my arms and I was ready to go.<br />
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With 150 people, a downpour upon canvas tents and simply being outside I could barely even hear myself. But I wandered and smiled and played and played and played. My hands didn't freeze, I didn't forget my songs, I didn't panic when people looked at me. I was totally fine. One wonderful gent named Greg even made a few requests, all of which I knew, and we played and sang together in harmony. Greg (and his wife Heather) was the highlight of my evening. Just lovely, welcoming and kind. He really stood out in that crowd, know what I mean?<br />
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I played my two hours, was given some lovely compliments, was paid (extra, even!) and I was gone. I was so happy and relieved that not only was it finally over but I DID IT!<br />
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Part of me feels like it wasn't any big accomplishment because I was just background noise. No one was really looking at me. But why should I take this away from myself? I never would have done this a year ago. This was a big step for me. So...YAY ME! Yeah!<br />
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Sean was away so there were no pictures of my awesome Hawaiian outfit but here I am with a flower in my hair and the other is of my uke laying on my saronged lap.<br />
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The last really awesome super cool thing is a guitar player I admire more than words can ever express has offered to play with me (live and on my demos). The man is amazing. If my fairy godmother came down and said she could make me play like anyone, I would likely choose him. He is simply amazing. My plan was to get my chops, work on my stuff for a couple of years, really hone and fine tune it and then ask him if he'd consider playing with me. But the other night at his gig he just offered. I wanted to squeeze his guts out. Instead I just thanked him and tried not to cry. <br />
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I'm trying not to psyche myself out of this. "Am I good enough?" "What if he thinks I suck?" "I hope he likes my songs." "I'm not nearly as good as the other people he plays with." "Who do I think I am playing with HIM?!?!" All that is swirling around in my head and I'm trying to push it away. I'm sure I'll feel better after we play together a bit. He's super busy, gigs most every night, so we have no solid plans yet. But he promises it will happen. And I trust him.<br />
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And the last cool thing, if you've made it this far, was yesterday when a very new acquaintance asked me to sing something for her and I did. Usually I'd wave it away and say, "No, another time" but yesterday I closed my eyes and sang a verse of <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfzqX_88QzM">Patti Smith's "Ghost Dance"</a>. When I opened my eyes and she was crying. "The world needs to hear your voice, Maria. And I hope they do. And if not the world, then I hope you can hear yourself as you really are: amazing."<br />
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I put her words here not to brag but as a reminder. There are those days where the darkness overwhelms me and I hate my voice and what my hands can and cannot do and I take my gifts for granted and I think I should just stop, just throw it all away and forget it. So these reminders that someone thinks I'm "amazing" and that it's not really about others hearing it but about *me* hearing myself that matters. <br />
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If you made it this far, thank you. A new video is in the works.Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-35533752650333103052013-04-22T18:06:00.000-07:002013-04-22T18:18:57.411-07:00I'm back!It's been over a month since my last post. Terrible! <br />
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Here's a cover of Tori Amos' "Cornflake Girl". This was an interesting exercise for me. Stripping that crazy layered song down to just some crunchy power chords and one vocal line was a challenge but fun. I hope you enjoy listening to it as much as I enjoyed covering it. <br />
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It's all your fault, Mr. Bird. I'm no Hendrix but I hope you'll still dig it. Thank you for inspiring me.<br />
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Breathe, breathe, breathe.<br />
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My dear friend sent me this note and it helped so much:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">"It's fine to be nervous, but your job in that nervousness is to find the stillness within you, and step forth from that stillness. That's what performing is. Yes, your external self should feel nervous, but your internal core, where your artist lives, should walk slowly forth with gravity and dignity, and stare at that audience and nod slowly, and then go forth. That's what I want for you today." </span>Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-64137332747532694932013-03-04T17:45:00.001-08:002013-03-04T17:45:36.331-08:00tomorrow!Tomorrow I will be on a rock & roll bar stage for the first time in 20 years. Yep, twenty. Last time was at Buffalo's marvelous (and now extinct) Continental. Last time I performed with a band was at my sister's wedding but that's a little different (and still something like 15 years ago).<br />
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And I'm still not nervous. I'm starting to get a little nervous about not being nervous! Though, so many are nervous for me maybe I don't have to be. :-)Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-9189274567057995172013-03-01T21:16:00.001-08:002013-03-01T21:16:43.521-08:00currentlyIt's been everso quiet here because I cut the tip of my finger off five weeks ago and haven't been able to play my instruments. It's mostly healed now and I will be posting new covers and originals again in no time. I've been desperately anxious to get back at it. While recuperating I spent lots of time plotting, planning and day dreaming about what comes next. All will be revealed in time.<br />
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Aside from the finger injury, I've also been distracted by preparing for the JESMAQ and The Thump gig. It's only 4 days away now and the reality of it has finally set in. I've got some butterflies but am mostly just so excited about it. So excited, in fact, that I'm not sleeping so well. I lay there and think about what it will be like. The cool thing is that instead of flipping out and vomiting I just get all excited and feel like running around the block. When I do actually sleep, I wake myself up singing my harmony parts (Cuz we have some very cool harmonies worked out. Very cool, indeed. Will I remember that #9? That flatted 5? That tense dissonance with the flat 7 at the end of that song? And what about that weird 11 we threw in over there? Will I? Huh? Will I? HA!). I hope I remember them as well at the gig as I do in my sleep. No matter what, it will be fine, but it sounds really effing cool when we get them just right.<br />
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As I mentioned before, there is safety in numbers. I won't be alone up there. I won't be the center of attention or the main focus. That helps a lot. Not only that but I'm working with such an incredibly talented group of people that I can't help but trust them. That makes a big difference too.<br />
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The thought of performing solo still scares the hell out of me. I've been doing visualizations about what my ideal solo gig would be like. I imagine the between song banter, what I'm wearing, who's in the audience, where my lead guitar player would sit, which songs I'd do and when. And as the visualization goes on my hands start to sweat. And then my feet. And then my heart is racing so hard I can feel it in my ears. And I can't breathe and I feel like I'm going to pass out. So then I start thinking about shoes or SeaMonkeys or China until I can breathe again.<br />
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Breathe...breathe...breathe...Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-39143989709155233012013-02-04T13:52:00.001-08:002013-02-04T13:52:09.950-08:00gigI've had the good fortune of being invited to sing harmony vocals in a rock band called JESMAQ & The Thump (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=_qcN-9Ase20">check us out here</a>). Our first gig is on March 5th at the legendary Horseshoe here in Toronto.<br />
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I can't believe my luck. Honestly. I just can't get over it.<br />
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And you know what? I'm not even nervous. Little butterflies, yes, but no stage fright at all. Nothing. I'm sure I'll vomit on the 5th. I'm sure I won't sleep on the 4th. But there's no dread or fear; just pure excitement. <br />
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There's safety in numbers afterall.<br />
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I think this is going to be a huge catalyst in getting me back on stage. I'll get comfy in my group and then wander away and do my own thing. It's how I did it all those moons ago so I'm sure it will go that way again.<br />
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Next step? Getting out to some open mics to do my solo stuff. Now *that* is terrifying!Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-70552143368094427112013-01-29T12:58:00.000-08:002013-01-29T12:58:02.820-08:00progress<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: x-small;">Recently, a friend tore my song apart. Well, that's a bit dramatic. He said this, "I don't like your voice. It's sounds forced and not like you. The snare is too loud, bad drum mix. Your guitars are nice though."</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: x-small;">He's never heard me before (not my covers or anything) and this was in response to me saying, "Remember I told you I'm trying to get over my stage fright? I've taken another big step and recorded a song I wrote and am actually sharing it! I hope you like it." It's not like I asked him to tell me what he thought or anything. I passed it over, hat in hand, you know? He's not even a musician, for goodness sake!</span></span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: x-small;">Anyway, I didn't fall apart as I imagined I would. I laughed. </span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: x-small;">Yes, folks. I laughed. I laughed and thought, "Who asked you, you dink?"</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><br style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: small;" /><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: x-small;">He's entitled to his own opinion just like everyone else. I know full well not everyone will like my music/voice/playing/haircut/lipstick/marinara sauce/whatever. That's totally cool. His delivery really sucked, I think. Especially considering the way I shared the song.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica; font-size: x-small;">Anyway, point is, something I feared would happened happened and I'm still standing. I'm totally fine. I still love my song and the job we did recording it. And I am still excited about sharing more. Although, said friend is off the mailing list. ha!</span></span>Maria http://www.blogger.com/profile/09857795907025381426noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2613238215817987804.post-47304135406397731612013-01-24T20:51:00.002-08:002013-01-24T20:51:51.671-08:00cover #6By the request of a dear friend, here is Mary Gauthier's "Before You Leave"<br />
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